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PostPosted: May.21.17 7:21 am 
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How did you survive? Sanal bodloo huvaaltsay hehe

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Gym membership ee butsaaj neelguullee...

Intense work out session uud try hit gej bodoj bna

Arhinii turliin zuils uuhgui baihaar shiidlee

Butsaad tsagaan hoolton boldiimuu get bodoj bn

Za uur yah ystoi be?

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PostPosted: May.21.17 7:53 am 
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Breaking up is one of the most hardest thing a person can experience. Not only the loss of love but the loss of that other person and the loss of imagined future together, the plans, the life is devastating. The mind processes emotional pain no different than physical pain. So know that you are physically hurting.

One thing I learned in couple of decades of living is that, it is OK to feel hurt, it is OK to feel bad. There is no going around it. You just have to manage it. Let it run its course. Give yourself time to fully mourn and after that time don't let yourself look back. Understand that it is a difficult time for you. This is where friends and support group come into play. I never liked to reveal myself intimately. I always tried to handle my emotional problems by myself. Maybe it is wrong, maybe right. I usually tell myself "man-up, world ain't no sunshine and rainbows".

Use this negative energy you're feeling into something positive. "Revenge energy" is very powerful.

Think how you'll handle future difficulties better since now that you know exactly how it feels and what it is.

Look at your baby pics or old pics. They always tell me how far I've came and how far I'll go.

Know that in few weeks, you'll look back with a smile and will be confident as ever.


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PostPosted: May.21.17 8:25 am 
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Thank you ncad

I LL get to who I was before. I'll get my strength back

It needs time. But I'll do it.

Difficult thing is I am do it by yourself type of person
I don't brag about my loss or difficulties to anyone

That's challenging when you are not showing your vulnerable side to people near by you...
But that's who I am...

Thanks for writing wise words!

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PostPosted: May.21.17 8:30 am 
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+ uur humuustei nemj hariltsaatai uusgehgui baihaar bas shiiidev

I nuhtsul baidald dahiaf ur huntei holbogdvol bur fuked up bolohoor. Shig sanagdlaa

So I LL just give me a lots of time to heal...

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PostPosted: May.21.17 10:07 am 
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Sounds like you are an introspective person like i am. More specifically i was categorized as INTJ. While i dont really trust those categorizations, some of them hit the mark surprisingly well. Know that there are people like you. We need to support ourselves. Dont feel alone.


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Цаг хугацааны эрхээр шинэхэн байсан сэтгэлийн шарх хуучин болж хэн нэгний тухай бодлууд чамайг өвтгөхөө болих л байх.
Гэхдээ үйл явцыг нь хурдлуулмаар байвал аялалд гараарай.Хэдхэн хоног байсан ч болно гэхдээ л чамайг цаг хугацаа, орон зайн хувьд таагүй мэдрэмжүүдээс чин холдуулна.
Эргээд гэртээ ирэхэд чин орхиод явсан зүйлс чин хэвэндээ угтах ч хаалгаар алхаад орж байгаа чи өөрчлөгдсөн байна.Таагүй дурсамжуудаа алсад үлдээгээрэй

Өөр хэн нэгнийг иймэрхүү үедээ амьдралдаа оруулахгүй гэдэг чин зөв байхаа.Холдон одож байгаа хүний сүүдэр бодит амьдрал дах байгаа байдлаасаа илүү том илүү гэрэлтсэн орлуулшгүй юм шиг л санагдана.Бодит бус тэр дүртэй тэрхэн цаг хугацаанд ямар хүн нь өрсөлдөж чадах вэ дээ?

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Uur sataarah yum olson ni zugeer baih aa . Shine hobby ch yum uu .

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Bayarlalaa tegnee..

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6 am untaj chadsangui.

Nar mandchihlaa odoo untaan get ch bhgui bizde

Daraa ene sedveer orj garah humuusd unshaad bas setgel sanaand ni jaahan ch gsen eyregeer nuluuluusui l gej husej bainadaa

Sonirholtoi ni humuuseer bid nar hair durlal iig husej muruuduud l baidag gehdee terendee Belen bish baidag bololtoi. Esvel hair durlal Tai uchraad udur bur az jargaltai baina gevel hudlaa.. umuudaa

Saihan baisan uyud ni boginohon baidag um bolovuu?

Hund itgej chadahgui baih, bas bardam zan gargah geed uuriiguu toirson uzleer humuujigdsen niigmiin ur dagavar bolson Hun huniig hairlah gej oroldoh...

Tsev tselmeg ugluu burtih ch uul alga... Amidraldaa chinii tuhai sonsood ungursunduu baylarlah heregtei umuu.. uur odoo yahvedee. Biye sain bodooroi geed helchihmeer sanagdah um. Hair halamj uzuulj chadaaguiee. Hajuud baisan bol halamjlah bailaa. Chadalaaraa.Ug ni emegtei hun chin halamjlah ystoi baimaar. Namaig bodoh toolondoo uuriguu sain archlaarai. Bitgii haniad hureerei. Sain untaj baigaarai. Nadaas bolj bitgii ih shanalaarai. Buh um hevendee ornoo. It's ok.

Geed helchihmeer baih um. Boldog bol zurhend chin baigaa uvdultiig uleegeed arilgachih umsan. Boldog bol buh zuils ehelj bsan uy ruu butsaad ochihson. Gehdee bolohgui.

Vitamin c sain uugaarai. Sain untaarai. Sain hooloo ideerei. Tegeed l bolloo...

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Төрүүлж өсгөсөн эцэг эхээ алдцан биш, төрсөн ах дүүгээ алдцсан биш , юун сүртэй эмордог юм бэ? Насаараа ханилсан хань ижилээ алдцымуу эсвэл ? Өөрөө харин ч азтай юм. Хэсэг хугацааны дараа мартахаа мэджил байгаа, өөр хүнтэй учирхаа бас мэджил байгаа. Мэдээж сайхан салалт байна гэж юу байхав гэхдээ сайн бодоод үзвэл одооны энэ зовлон шаналал чинь тийм ч хэцүү биш гэдгийг ойлгох байхаа. Амжилт хүсье. Амьдралд хайраас өөр чухал олон зүйл байдаг. Нэг хаалга хаагдахад нөгөө хаалга нээгдэж байдаг энэ тохиолдолд! эцэг эхээ хайрла тэд чинь өөрөөс чинь салвал хэзээч ирэхгүй гээд боддоо.

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PostPosted: May.22.17 5:09 am 
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Tt 4me

Etseg ehee hairlalgui yahve bitgii tegj Bai

Hunii amidraliig medehgui baij olon um heleh muuhai shuu

Amidraldaa olon durlaj baigaagui tegeel emorj baigaa blgui yahavde gants durlal biz emoorool biz

Harin amindaa odoo emoorohoo boliy gd sedev hurtel neej bnshde

Er ni humuus medremjee hucheer darah geed l baidag ene ih buruu umuudaa yavj yavj...

Hair durlal iig uzen yddag heseg buleg humuus uuschihej so kinonii l buruu baih. Saihan umiig shaldar buldar bolood haychihsan um bolovuu?

Emoroh hair durlal salalt etriig uzen ydah heregguiee ene chin baigaliaasaa l baih ystoi l xuil. Bid nar robot bish shde hu. Chi ch gsen neg udur saihan hairtai uchrah bhoi


Ene sedev daraa salj Bui olon hund here boloo chuu hen medehev

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PostPosted: May.22.17 7:27 am 
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Let them go, if they truly love you they'll come back. gej bgaasht.

Tehdee bas if you let them go too much, too often, for too long, the that is a recipe for heartache.

Bi lav emegtei hund "space" ene ter ogch chadahgui ee. Either you're with me or you don't. I can't handle in-between or "open" relationships.


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PostPosted: May.22.17 7:45 am 
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Exactly, like scorpions we are extremely like that

And loyal af if we are truly in love
I don't believe in open relationships or separate bedrooms either. I am ride or die. Now or never kind of person

But in a relationship you have to compromise now and then
It's not just about you but also about the other person

Also there is life situations. We are not kids anymore. We have our lives ahead of us. Then the other person come into the picture and how they gonna fit in my life.
Often times the big reason to break up is fitting in each other's life I think. Esp it's long distance relationship.

But I like to live for the moments. I like unconventional things... And you never know what's gonna happen tomorrow...

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PostPosted: May.22.17 7:52 am 
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The most difficult thing is a long distance relationship

You can't see eye to eye. You can't physically see them every other day so it's hard to guess what's the other person going through in their lives.

You can't express you affection physically. That's the hardest part.

Only thing you can do is hope and stay positive maybe. I am stubborn realist sometimes which serves me no good in a relationship.

. Need ih zovoohgui baiy gej bodood l salay gd helchihdeg. Heterhii negniigee zovoogood demi huleelgeh vii gd bolidog bh...

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PostPosted: May.22.17 9:31 am 
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My current relationship is a long distance one. Its been like that for 4-5 years now. It is hard. But every time she comes back it is like a new start. Kinda exciting. When we are together we know the time will come. The time to say goodbye. So we try to make best of it. I dont hold back my words. I try to say love you as much as i can. Just like the whole of life, you know. Life is finite, it will end sometime, so we gotta make the best of it right now.


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ЭГЭЛ_ wrote:
Gym membership ee butsaaj neelguullee...

Intense work out session uud try hit gej bodoj bna

Arhinii turliin zuils uuhgui baihaar shiidlee

Butsaad tsagaan hoolton boldiimuu get bodoj bn

Za uur yah ystoi be?

Удахгүй бүх зүйл сайхан болно доо :)

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PostPosted: May.22.17 10:52 am 
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ЭГЭЛ_ wrote:
Gym membership ee butsaaj neelguullee...

Intense work out session uud try hit gej bodoj bna

Arhinii turliin zuils uuhgui baihaar shiidlee

Butsaad tsagaan hoolton boldiimuu get bodoj bn

Za uur yah ystoi be?

Удахгүй бүх зүйл сайхан болно доо :)

Gj heleed terminal umduu tailav kkkk


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PostPosted: May.22.17 1:52 pm 
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Yah gej ingej bdiimde

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PostPosted: May.23.17 10:35 am 
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you were fine before him and you will be just fine after him.

focus on yourself, not just for revenge but only for yourself. block your ex, don't lurk.

i have my fav quote,
"Drink from the well of your self, and begin again.”
Charles Bukowski

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PostPosted: May.23.17 11:58 am 
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Erotika

Yah gej ingej bdiimde

Gej heleed egel ...... kkk


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PostPosted: May.23.17 12:11 pm 
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you were fine before him and you will be just fine after him.

focus on yourself, not just for revenge but only for yourself. block your ex, don't lurk.

i have my fav quote,
"Drink from the well of your self, and begin again.”
Charles Bukowski



What if he did nothing wrong? I am the bad guy who wants to break up?

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PostPosted: May.23.17 1:33 pm 
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Хэр удаан харилцаатай байсан юм бэ. Өөр газруудад байсан бол хэцүү л дэ. Эхлээд өдөрт хэд ярина, яваандаа тоо нь ярих хугацаа нь ч багасаад байна.


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PostPosted: May.23.17 5:48 pm 
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go do shopping, change hair style n image everything,become new you
everything that reminds of him get the fukcing rid off them, even it's expensive gift sell away!!!
party with your gals

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PostPosted: May.23.17 10:27 pm 
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Schizophrenic. wrote:
you were fine before him and you will be just fine after him.

focus on yourself, not just for revenge but only for yourself. block your ex, don't lurk.

i have my fav quote,
"Drink from the well of your self, and begin again.”
Charles Bukowski


Bukowski :wd:


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